Expatriate milf wants to have sex

On the scale of sexiness, how dramatic is the decline once you become a MILF like me? Honest answers please! I appreciate honesty!

You can never have too many friends, and since I recently moved, I have few. I live with my boyfriend, and we moved to his area. So, it's not a problem for him, but an occasional chat or outing would be welcome.

I'm really in a rut. My husband is always working, and I'm stuck at home. When he does come home, he immediately collapses and doesn't even kiss me anymore. I really miss the excitement and intimacy.

For me, it doesn't have to turn into a relationship right away. If it does, we'll see what happens, but let's start by getting to know each other.