Expatriate milf wants to have sex

I don't have much experience with boyfriends, but I do know that some are jerks. Especially the boys (yes, boys, because they're not men yet) my age think they're something special. Well, they're nothing and they know nothing. They especially don't know how to handle women. Are there any (older) men here who do know how?

My fantasy? I'd love to be tied up and blindfolded to a bed and then let you use me completely. You can do whatever you want! As long as you don't hurt me.

It's better to ask me what I don't like, then I'll be done faster than telling you everything. :) Things don't get out of hand easily, and I can really enjoy myself and make you enjoy yourself too.

Let me just get straight to the point: my husband barely allows me to have sex, and I feel too young to settle for the rest of my life whether I get it or not. I just want to be pampered and feel the intimacy.