Hot girl wants a fling

I thought I'd found my lover, but it turned out he already had three, and that's a bit much for me. A steady lover is what I'm looking for; I don't want to start a relationship, but I do want to enjoy each other's company from time to time!

It's very simple: I'm a sweet girl, and I'm looking for an equally sweet man. Not a show-off type who'll show Mom off, but just a sweetheart who doesn't feel the need to prove himself.

I'm a sweet girl, but I do stand my ground. What I find important in a relationship is talking.

Married but not feeling that way. Sound familiar? Being alone a lot, sleeping alone often, having to go to birthday parties alone, raising the kids alone—it's all apparently part of being married. It was great in the beginning. Even when the kids were very young. But it feels like something has changed lately. I often feel lonely.