Expat girl wants a fling

I'm married, but this remains between us. We live practically next door to each other, and I could certainly use a little friendship. My husband isn't interested in us even starting a conversation, let alone going out together.

Believe it or not, I'm still single. It seems like no one notices me, and I really struggle with that. I want to have a fun date so I can show up at parties with a nice guy instead of alone.

I don't know why, but most men just walk past me. I'm very shy and look away easily, but why don't they even approach me? I'll leave it up to you, but just know that you'll get what you pay for.

Hi! A discreet, exciting friendship with benefits is what I want and what I'm looking for here. What turns me off? Men who aren't well-groomed.