Non dutch girl wants a fling

I sometimes regret that we moved in together so quickly. It probably has something to do with losing touch after a relationship of over 18 years. Who knows, maybe I'll find someone here who can make things a bit more appealing and maybe fall in love again.

How should I put it? Just my thoughts. I'm in the mood to be naughty, but my boyfriend hasn't really been up for anything extra naughty lately. So now I'm looking for someone who is and who also wants to have a good time with me.

I'm really in a rut. My husband is always working, and I'm stuck at home. When he does come home, he immediately collapses and doesn't even kiss me anymore. I really miss the excitement and intimacy.

It's too boring here, it's driving me crazy. I don't get it either. Before we were married, it was all fun and games, now he's got the loot and the effort is over. It's driving me crazy, this boring life and always the same boring sex. If only that last part could change, I'd be overjoyed!