Expatriate woman wants a fling

I hope to find a life partner I can communicate well with this way. I'm an open woman myself, and I don't put up a wall. I could never fight that, and as a life partner, I'm looking for a man who is a strong communicator and who isn't afraid to express his feelings.

My previous relationship ended in disaster, and now I can only hope for a man who will fulfill my needs. I love oral sex, and I never had that luck with my ex. He did demand it of me, but I'm more comfortable with it when it's mutual! So what I'm looking for here is a man who won't be too self-centered during sex.

I notice the world around me is changing dramatically. Everything has to go faster, and even faster if possible, but what if you just want to take it easy?

I've been single for a long time and I've quite enjoyed it, but given my young age, I also want something to hold me accountable. Not necessarily for a relationship, but it would be nice to have a good friend.